Virgo Females : The quest for perfection

Mirror, Mirror who is
the fairest of them all?

Virgos females are the type of girl who you want to be. She always looks neat, pulled together and never frazzled. Her clothing, hair and makeup always looks superb and flawless. She is usually the epitome of class, feminity, and kindness (some exceptions to this, but I will discuss that later). But what really makes a Virgo female like this? What makes her tick? Is it Virgo's natural instinct for order and neatness? Possibly, the two are very related. But the majority of Virgo females are influenced by one thing, low self esteem.

Many Virgo females are plagued with low self esteem. Virgos notice everything, especially the small or insignificant details the rest of us don't bother paying attention to. I mentioned in my last post how Virgo males are oftentimes very critical of their lovers/friends/family but most Virgo women are different because they turn that critical eye inwards. Flaws the rest of us would never notice are dissected and analyzed repeatedly by Virgo women.

Many Virgo women are very unhappy or unsatisfied with their looks.  At times their obsession with their looks also results in some Virgo females becoming extremely vain or narcissitic. Virgo women can develop delusions of self-grandeur or be judgemental of others who don't meet their lofty standards

Constantly striving for perfection, these Virgos are the women who are in their plastic surgeons office every other week. They are the type of women who can never have enough shoes, clothes or make-up no matter the expense. Without these things some Virgo females can not function. Some female Virgos can not draw the line as to what is too much. They will ignore or sacrifice their health to maintain or improve their bodies to achieve this "perfection". For example, one famous Virgo female is Heidi Montag, at 24 she has had more than 25 plastic surgery procedures performed on her.    

The quest for perfection has plagued many other Virgo females, such as Beyonce Knowles (who underwent a diet involving her drinking nothing but cayenne laced lemonade for three weeks straight) or Nicole Richie (who suffered from multiple eating disorders). In my own personal experience dealing with Virgo women I have noticed how the quest for perfection can destroy a Virgos self esteem. This characteristic of Virgo women can be disastrous to others around them as well since a Virgo female will often lash out at the very people who are trying to help her. Or worse they can also be very rude and critical of people who don't meet their standards of perfection.

More often then not, the biggest problem Virgo women face is that they can develop a hatred of themselves which can make them fall into deep deppresions about their perceived imperfections. This is a pity because otherwise Virgo females have great personalities and are very down to earth. It's important to note that not all Virgo females hate themselves or will develop body dysmorphia or eating disorders. Rather for the most part this characterisitc results in Virgo females in being self critical and unhappy with their body/looks. More often then not the average Virgo will find faults or imperfections in themselves that the rest of the world simply does not see.

So Virgos keep your head up, and learn to love yourself, flaws and all :-).