Gemini Male: Heartbreaker you got the best of me

Gemini males. Where should I begin? There is a lot to be said about Gemini males, some good but mostly bad (especially if you're not an Air sign). Geminis are unlike any other male sign in the Zodiac, although Aquarian males may have some similarities, nothing comes close to a Gemini male.

First of all let me just say that Gemini men are extremely charming. When you first meet one, chances are you will be extremely impressed by his wit, suave personality and his ability to keep up a conversation without any awkward lulls or silences. Geminis know how to treat a lady (in the beginning at least), they will do everything but lay out a red carpet for you to walk on. They are extremely romantic in the beginning of a relationship and will charm the pants off not only you but your family, friends, co-workers, pets, etc.

But not all good things can last. So is the case with Gemini men. Geminis in general are not a relationship type of sign. This is not to say that they don't enjoy dating, because Gems love meeting (or sleeping) with lots of different types of people. What gets Gems is boredom. Once this sign gets to know you and you start wanting a ring is the minute you realize he has his bag packed or is out the front door.

Ladies ( and some gentlemen) trust me when I say this, be careful with Geminis. This is a sign that is extremely changeable and untrustworthy. They only adore the chase, but not the relationship that comes afterwards. Once they meet a woman they are interested in they will pursue her until she falls for them, and once that happens they are done.They really do well with only Air signs. When they're with other signs they tend to feel constricted and chained down. 

When a Gemini does get into a relationship this changeability can be a good thing. Gemini men are extremely creative and changeable in bed. They enjoy toys and props in bed and love spicing things up in bed. They like to try crazy positions, sex toys and role playing. The kinkier the better with this sign. They are turned on by the visual as well as the auditory.  Gems are definitely not quiet lovers. As I mentioned in my last post, this sign loves to talk. And in bed they're no different. This sign for the most part prefers to dominate in bed, they are not scared or too timid to instruct you in what they want and many will not hesitate to give orders. They know what they like and what they want to see. They get extremely turned on by dirty talk and verbalizing your fantasies. They enjoy things like role playing different scenarios with you, and are also very turned on by the idea of a menage a trois (usually with another female).

Yet despite the tendency to dominate in the bedroom, Geminis are also extremely sensual and very much into pleasing women. This may come as a surprise to many since this sign is not known in Astrology as being overtly sexual or as a good lover. Most people consider the "twins" to be light, flirtatious, and somewhat prudish. But from what I have heard and experienced they usually make sure that their woman leaves satisfied. Some women with Gemini lovers have described it to me as Gemini putting on a performance for them. Gemini men want their lovers to be satisfied in bed, however, the rest of the relationship is a different story.

So here's the tragic part of the romance with a Gemini. You may think everything is going well and things are finally starting to get serious. When all of a sudden he's no longer answering your phone calls, returning your emails, and your bank account is drained. What happened you may wonder? Turns out you probably fell in love with one side of his personality, but when that "other" side of their personality comes out its like your romance was make believe. You no longer mean anything to them. Its like your relationship or romance never existed. It's the fatal allure of the Gemini.

Once a Gemini disappears good luck trying to find him. Its almost like an evil twin has abducted him because they turn into a different person over night. Geminis are also the type of man that will disappear just when you are starting to fall in love with him. I am afraid I can't give my readers an answer as to why this is. But most Geminis need excitement, spontaneity and newness in a relationship or else they will  leave. Once again this is why Gems need an Air sign. Who else will keep a Gemini entertained? Aquariuses are so kinky and strange which turns Gems on. Libras chattering and easy going personality makes Gems feel comfortable and unconfined. Leos are possibly one of the only signs besides Air that meshes well with Gemini. This is because Leos enjoy performing in bed and Gems love to be a participant. Not to mention Leos are very easy to please, just keep the charm coming.

Those with Gemini men know how hard it must be to keep your man interested. A word of advice, don't hesitate to spice things up and change things around every once in a while. Gems love spontaneity so don't hesitate to let your inner vixen out to play. Fair warning, this sign is not the most loyal nor the most faithful. If its ever lasting love you are looking for, search else where, because Geminis are not for you.

As always, good luck :-)